New letter to heaven postbox opens at Baldarroch Crematorium

A unique initiative allows grieving families to express their feelings through letters.

In a heartfelt initiative aimed at helping families cope with grief, a new “letter to heaven” postbox has been installed at Baldarroch Crematorium near Crathes. This unique postbox allows families to send letters to their deceased loved ones, providing a tangible way to express their feelings and maintain a connection with those they have lost.

Inspiration behind the postbox

The idea for the postbox was conceived by Paula and Scott Lawson, whose son, Adam Lawson, tragically lost his life in a motorcycle accident last September. The couple was inspired after hearing about a young girl who wished to send a letter to her late grandparents but had no place to post it.

This poignant moment sparked the Lawsons’ determination to create a similar opportunity for others grieving the loss of a loved one.

A special location for remembrance

Choosing Baldarroch Crematorium as the site for the postbox was a deliberate decision, as it is where their son was laid to rest.

The Lawsons approached the crematorium management with their idea and advocated for its implementation. Instead of a traditional postbox, a cairn with a letterbox was constructed to harmonize with the rural landscape, making it a fitting tribute to those who have passed.

First letters sent in memory of loved ones

On the day of the postbox’s official opening, the Lawsons were the first to utilize it, marking a significant moment in their journey of remembrance. Mrs. Lawson expressed her feelings of privilege in being the first to send a letter, while Mr. Lawson emphasized the importance of this initiative for other families. He stated, “I think it will help a lot of families,” highlighting the comfort it can provide during difficult times.

Community response and future impact

The introduction of the letter to heaven postbox has been met with enthusiasm from the community. Many families in the north-east now have the opportunity to send their own letters, drawings, or messages to their loved ones, creating a space for healing and reflection. The crematorium’s director, Brian Smith, noted that he had never encountered such a concept before but recognized its significance and potential impact on grieving families.

A lasting tribute for generations to come

The cairn and letterbox are designed to endure, ensuring that families can continue to use this service for years to come. As the community embraces this initiative, it serves as a reminder of the enduring bonds of love and memory that connect us to those who have passed away. The Lawsons hope that this postbox will bring comfort to many, allowing them to express their thoughts and feelings in a meaningful way.